Frequently Asked Questions

An end of life midwife, also known as an end-of-life doula, a death doula,  or transition guide, is a non-medical professional trained to provide holistic support to individuals and their families during the final phase of life. The role of an end of life midwife includes emotional, spiritual, and practical support, ensuring that the dying process is as peaceful and meaningful as possible for both the individual and their loved ones.

End of Life Midwife/death doula provides non-medical, holistic support throughout the end-of-life process. Our role includes offering emotional and spiritual care, facilitating meaningful conversations, guiding families through the dying process, and assisting with legacy projects and rituals. Death doulas focus on creating peace, acceptance, and a personalized experience for the dying individual and their loved ones.

Hospice Care:

Hospice care is a medical service that provides comprehensive care to those with a terminal illness. It involves a team of healthcare professionals who manage pain and symptoms, offer medical support, and provide emotional and spiritual counseling. Hospice care aims to ensure a dignified and comfortable end-of-life experience, typically provided in the patient’s home or a hospice facility.

End of Life Midwife/ death doula and hospice care providers can collaborate to offer a full spectrum of support. While the hospice team addresses medical needs, the death doula focuses on emotional, spiritual, and practical aspects:

• Coordination: Working alongside the hospice team to ensure the patient’s wishes are respected and their needs are holistically met.
• Emotional Support: Complementing hospice counselors by providing additional one-on-one emotional support and presence.
• Education: Helping families understand the dying process, what to expect, and how to navigate this period.
• Legacy Projects: Assisting with life reviews, memory projects, and rituals that add meaning and closure.
• Practical Assistance: Offering practical support, such as coordinating care logistically and easing the burden on families.

In person services are available in the counties of San Francisco, San Mateo, and Marin.  Travel  outside of this immediate service area can be discussed.  I am grateful to be connected with other end of life doulas and may be able to assist with a referral.  Additionally, I do offer virtual appointments.  

End of Life Midwives/Death Doulas do not offer any medical services. However,  I can help support you in understanding the medications by reinforcing education and instructions provided by your medical care  team.  

Individuals Facing Terminal Illness or Advanced Age

• Those diagnosed with a terminal condition who are seeking emotional, spiritual, and practical support to navigate the end-of-life journey.

Families and Loved Ones of Terminally Ill Individuals

• Family members and friends who need guidance and support to care for their loved one, manage their own emotions, and prepare for bereavement.

Elderly Individuals

• Seniors who wish to plan their end-of-life care proactively and ensure their preferences are respected.

Hospice Patients

• Patients receiving hospice care who can benefit from additional emotional and spiritual support, as well as assistance with legacy projects and vigil services.

Caregivers

• Primary caregivers who need respite, resources, and support to manage the complexities of end-of-life care and maintain their well-being.

Individuals Seeking Meaningful End-of-Life Experiences

• Anyone who wants to explore their spiritual beliefs, create sacred spaces, or celebrate a farewell party to reflect on their life in a meaningful way.

Those in Need of Advance Care Planning

• Individuals who wish to outline their healthcare preferences and ensure that their end-of-life wishes are clearly communicated and respected.

People Experiencing Grief and Loss

• Loved ones who are navigating the grieving process and would benefit from bereavement support, counseling, and connections to support groups.